Pregnancy is often celebrated as a beautiful journey, but for many, it’s also a time of quiet isolation. It’s shocking how, during this transformative and vulnerable period, friends and family can go completely silent. The visits don’t happen. The calls to check in are rare. The genuine support you expect simply isn’t there.
But the real surprise comes after the baby arrives. Suddenly, everyone is eager. They demand to visit, they want pictures of the baby, and they act as though they were there for you all along. It’s heartbreaking to see how the focus shifts entirely to the baby, with little thought for the mother who endured the sleepless nights, the physical changes, and the emotional rollercoaster of pregnancy alone.
It’s not just about the absence of visits or calls—it’s the message it sends. It’s as though the mother only matters when there’s a baby in her arms, not when she’s carrying life within her.
If you know someone who’s expecting, take a moment to reach out. A simple, “How are you feeling?” or “Can I drop by for a chat?” can mean the world. Pregnancy isn’t just about preparing for the baby—it’s about nurturing and supporting the person bringing that life into the world.
To the mothers reading this: You are seen, you are valued, and your journey matters. Whether the world shows up for you or not, remember your strength is unmatched.
Let’s start doing better—supporting not just the baby but the person who makes it all possible.
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